Dating can be a tricky and daunting experience. Countless concerns can get men in a spin before, during and after meeting someone new. You may well find yourself pondering issues such as:
- What should I wear?
- Where should we go?
With questions like these bouncing around in your head, it can be hard to focus on actually getting to know your date, so we’ve come up with three top dating tips for men.
1. Make a good first impression
We know you shouldn’t judge a book by the cover, but, like it or not, first impressions are important. You may think your tatty old T-shirt has always brought you good fortune, but it’s unlikely to be lucky if you wear it to a first date. A woman is likely to appreciate it if you take some care about your appearance. There’s no need to go over the top by renting a tux, but wearing something appropriate for the setting should immediately impress her and get your date off to a good start.
2. Where should we meet?
If you’ve been asked to pick the place to hook up, think about arranging a date in territory that’s familiar to you. This will help to quell any nerves and make you feel more comfortable and relaxed. But don’t forget about your date’s likely preferences – your usual Saturday night hangout that’s packed to the rafters and blaring heavy rock music may not be the best call! Playing it safe with dinner or drinks is usually a good bet, or you night like to go for something a little different such as bowling, a picnic, or trip to the zoo.
3. Be confident– but don’t overdo it!
Confidence can be an attractive feature as long as you don’t overdo it. Steer the conversation in a subtle way to a subject you’re enthusiastic about, such as a hobby: your date will sense your confidence as you talk with enthusiasm about it. However, don’t make the mistake of doing all the talking. If the date goes well, there will likely be many more opportunities to share your stories. Bear in mind that listening is important too, so mix up the conversation by asking your date questions. Try to keep the conversation light-hearted – a first date isn’t usually the time for an in-depth analysis of world political issues.
We hope our top dating tips for men have gone some way in showing you how to get more from dating. Above all, remember the importance of honesty and being yourself. And if you want to see your date again, get in touch sooner rather than later. If you don’t call or text her at least within a couple of days, she may think you’re not interested or you didn’t enjoy your date.
